For future "relationships", that is. Okay, so who hasn't come across their crush's blog/tumblr and decided to take a look really fast, because you wanted to know what they thought beyond facebook posts or myspace comments, etc so the next day you want to know what happened in their day and if they make a reference about you, so the following day you want to know what they wore or who they hung out with, but you read some emotional venting post and you start to wonder what happened and what's going to happen, right? So, you comeback the day after and so on, because it almost becomes like this celebrity obsession about someone you only read stuff and see through a screen but have not made much contact in person, and you start realizing about their turn ons, turn offs, pet peeves, likes and dislikes and so forth, and you start to know more about them and their friends and life styles.
Then you see pictures from last friday's hipster parties--everyone wearing leather, black and fedoras and you know...the whole stuff. So without realizing you start to know more about the way they think and feel, or at least what their grammar reflects, or the way that ":D" smiles back at you, oh and you also realize that you're a stalker but don't feel so bad because "everyone has done some lurking of their own."
After a while, you read posts where he rants and goes on about how annoying something is, and you kind of think what they just describe fits something that you do, so you say "Oh well whatever, I don't even think he's that cute anymore" but you can't stop watching or reading, and then soon you think you have figured him out and believe that a date with them would be boring because you almost know what music he listens to, and what movies he likes and etc. So...blogging can be bad for future relationships. Well, that's what I think, up to some extent of course.
Currently Listening To: The sound of Mean Girls/Ghost Hunting in the background.
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